SINGLZ is a recurring club night exclusively for single adults. Held at established venues in major Dutch cities, each event combines a standard nightlife format, DJ, music, and a bar with one defining condition: every person in the room is single. There are no speed-dating rounds, no structured activities, and no matching system. The event is designed for adults who prefer a natural social setting over a facilitated one, and who want to meet people without the format being the focus of the evening.
SINGLZ events are open social nights designed for single adults across all ages and backgrounds. The format is intentionally relaxed there are no rounds, no assignments, and no structured interaction. What makes the environment function as intended is the shared understanding that every person present has agreed to the same conditions of participation. These conditions, and the conduct expected of all attendees, are outlined on this page. Reading them before attending ensures that the event remains a consistent and appropriate space for everyone present.
At SINGLZ events, safety is understood as the collective responsibility of every person present to maintain an environment where attendees can socialise freely without feeling pressured, uncomfortable, or at risk. Unlike structured dating formats, a SINGLZ club night operates within the same social and legal norms as any public venue, with the added expectation that all interactions remain consensual, voluntary, and respectful. Safety at SINGLZ is not a separate programme or add-on it is the operational baseline from which the entire event is designed.
SINGLZ events operate on a single core eligibility condition: all attendees must be single at the time of attendance. This rule is stated as a condition of ticket purchase and participation. The integrity of the event depends on all attendees honouring this condition independently.
The event is designed as a space where single people can meet under shared and openly understood social conditions. The presence of non-single attendees undermines this premise for all other participants.
The condition is stated during ticket purchase and across all promotional channels. By completing a purchase, attendees confirm their compliance with this requirement.
SINGLZ does not independently verify relationship status. Adherence relies on the honesty of each participant. No technical enforcement mechanism is in place.
All attendees are expected to behave in a manner that respects the personal boundaries and comfort of others at all times. This applies to verbal communication, physical conduct, and the way in which interactions are initiated or continued. Respectful behaviour is not governed by a formal rulebook but by the standard of conduct expected in any supervised public social environment.
A personal boundary is crossed when an attendee continues an interaction, verbal, physical, or otherwise after the other person has indicated, directly or indirectly, that they are not interested or are uncomfortable. The following conduct is considered a boundary violation in this context:
The event team and venue security staff are present throughout the evening. Their role includes monitoring the general atmosphere and responding to any reports submitted by attendees. Monitoring is not intrusive and does not involve surveillance of individual interactions. It is intended to ensure that the overall environment remains appropriate and that reported issues are addressed without delay.
Any reported incident is reviewed by the event team or venue security, depending on the nature of the situation. The response is proportionate to the conduct involved and may include a verbal warning, removal from the venue, or escalation to relevant authorities if required. The process is handled discreetly and with consideration for all parties involved.
| Situation | Contact |
|---|---|
| Unwanted repeated approaches or verbal discomfort | Event Team |
| Suspected non-single attendee | Event Team |
| Non-consensual physical contact | Venue Security |
| Aggressive or threatening behaviour | Venue Security |
| Unclear or ambiguous situation | Event Team (will escalate if necessary) |
SINGLZ monitors ticket sales across defined demographic categories to maintain a broadly balanced composition of attendees. This is not a matching mechanism it is an operational measure intended to reduce social imbalance that can contribute to pressure or discomfort within the event environment.
Tickets are tracked across three age groups: 18–30, 30–45, and 45+. All groups attend the same event. Monitoring ensures no single group becomes disproportionately dominant within the overall audience.
Gender is recorded at the point of ticket purchase. Sales are monitored per category to maintain a reasonable balance. If a significant imbalance is identified, ticket availability may be adjusted accordingly.
Balance monitoring is applied at the level of overall audience composition. It does not guarantee equal representation within every part of the venue or at every moment during the event.
If a situation crosses your personal boundaries, speak to the event staff or venue security immediately. They are present throughout the evening and handle concerns on-site. Typical steps may include:
